Love Your Enemy Part 1: The Inner Enemy

Self love and acceptance is primordial for healing the world. Given the state of the world, which is inverted so wrong is seen as right and right is seen as wrong, it seems that we all need a lot more self honoring which is loving ourselves unconditionally. This has been true from the beginning, so why is it so hard?

In very straight forward terms, it’s because we’ve individually and collectively disconnected from God Source Creator within ourselves and in our outer world, especially Nature. Because Of this disconnect. We’ve all abused ourselves and others.

WE ARE OFTEN OUR OWN WORST ENEMY THEN THAT IS PROJECTED OUT INTO OUR WORLD.

To clarify, “victim” in terms of the inner victim means victim consciousness. On this self-inner level, the rescuer/savior/hero – the hero’s journey- is what needs to activate between the polarity of self victim and bully. It’s the observer, objective, christed consciousness that inwardly rises up out of polarity. Here, the inner “savior” becomes the balancing factor between two extremes.

Negative self-talk stems from our thoughts, and therefore, creates that reality as in the universal law of attraction. Thoughts become things, but this inner mediator can change our thoughts, and CHOOSE in freedom other ones of a higher consciousness level. (see David Hawkins map of consciousness). Over-identifying with a negative, lower consciousness thought creates this cycle of suffering.

Fragmentation is created when there is trauma or abuse in any form, which causes the inner child to disassociate from itself, God, Source, Divine Essence. It woundedly decides it will only stay small, permanently the “acorn”, and forget it’s potential to rise above, and evolve into its “oakness”.

SELF ABUSE SELF SABATOGE NEGATIVE SELF TALK

Self victim : Self bully

POOR ME Thinks in terms of black or white

SAVE ME Categoric, could be psycho rigid

DEMANDING

Making yourself small and less than Glass is always half empty

Whoever you compare yourself to Refuses to see progress

Vulnerable WeAk Inflicts punishment,

Could self mutilate to feel that they exist Deprives SELF of pleasure

Unable to stand up for oneself Could self mutilate

Defeat gives up

Life is hard refuses to see progress

Why try? Exceptionally hard on self, harder

than you’d be on anyone else

LESS THAN unworthy of love,

Feel sorry for self, Pitiful Life = mistakes about to happen

I’m a loser, pitiful, failure, freak,

Repeated victim self talk Takes no risks

means you will inevitably attract Perfectionist

an outer bully

DEPRESSED SAD Judges

self hate

All by myself “ Should have”, regret, past conditional

guilt, perfectionist, sabotages,

ANGRY

When the bully and the victim stay “positioned” in the extremes, and oppose each other inwardly, it if continues it leads to SELF DESTRUCTION. They are in fact, very similar to each in their self attacks and torture. The Rescuer, witness consciousness that observes thought, like when we meditate, must coach the bully to become the challenger, and the victim to become a creator.

This process can be guided by a coach, especially when you’re feely stuck. Please, check out the video I made on this topic.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WM59IDWP4c4

LOVE YOUR ENEMY PART I INNER VICTIM BULLY SAVIOR